But Martha [overly occupied and too busy] was distracted with much serving; and she came up to Him and said, Lord, is it nothing to You that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me [to lend a hand and do her part along with me]! Amplified
Would the pastor of the typical local church prefer that their congregations be filled with Martha’s or Mary’s? If they were Martha’s no slot for a volunteer would ever go unfilled! With our Martha’s, there might be a bit of quibbling here and there (and everywhere?) but at least the show could go on. When I read Jesus’ response to Martha’s complaint, it caused me to tremble a bit for her and the things built upon her labors….
Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things; there is need of only one (or but a few) things. Mary has chosen the good portion [that which is to her advantage], which shall not be taken away from her. Amplified
I was still attending church while the Mary in me was growing and I began to say “no” to various responsibilities. While I still kind of wanted one, I can promise you that just sitting around at the feet of Jesus and listening did not earn any gold stickers from my local 501(c)(3)(church).
A confession is necessary here. I know Martha because I have been Martha. There may still be some Martha in me but I am choosing the better part (Christ over performance) more frequently. As I watched my local 501(c)(3) using and often wearing out good people, I started asking myself questions; the largest one was, “Is this really church?” That led to another, “What is church?” I didn’t know it initially, but with that question I had become an alien and a stranger (even a threatening enemy) to my local 501(c)(3). Church culture permits you to ask these questions to yourself but you are out of bounds if you ask them publicly. Note; If you persist, you will be escorted to a nearby cliff.
When I found myself being censored, I knew it was best for all if I left so that I did not succeed any further in my ministry of “stirring things up”. Most of the members of local churches (at least the well-behaved ones) have been conditioned to be more sensitive to the culture and back up when they near that boundary I had crossed. Some have learned to thrive on the status quo and some even earn their living in that context. These dare not say or do any stirring. Note; At the end of this post I will add a footnote that expands on the point of this paragraph.
The gulf between myself and the traditional models of church continued to grow as I tried to reconcile what I had just observed and experienced in the previous 20 years with the New Testament. It shocked me at how little resemblance there was in either structure or outcome. My research and study was like Watergate. As the Deepthroats continued to feed me incriminating information on the current administration, I was slowly realizing this cover up goes all the way to the top!
If you are happy and believe that you see the congruency of what you are experiencing in your local church with the new testament, by all means do not read any of the following Deepthoat Documents; Revolution by George Barna, The Untold Story of the New Testament Church and Pagan Christianity by Frank Viola, The Pastor Has No Clothes by Jon Zens and Neil Cole, So You Don’t Want To Go To Church Anymore by Wayne Jacobson, An Army of Ordinary People by Felicity Dale. On the other hand if you feel stifled, censored, hungry or thirsty, these informants might save your life. I can also refer you to dozens of other ones if you are so inclined.
Oh yes, regardless of whether you are a “gold sticker” christian or persona non grata with the local church, by all means, read He Loves Me by Wayne Jacobson. It has the cure for MS (Martha Syndrome) another RTD (Religiously Transmitted Disease). Note: A brief mention of another RTD, “RHSCD”, which like MS, impairs hearing, was exposed on Monday’s offering. You can access that at middlewithmystery.com. Past posts are all archived there.
I also will have to award a gold sticker to Jim Branch for creating the Blue Book. It has been a powerful encouragement to the Mary’s in many of us – that thing that wants to and was destined to know Christ intimately and contribute to the expansion of his Kingdom. If this has captured your attention I can hook you up with a Blue Book. Email me at email@example.com.
Father, Help us to put on the breaks and ask ourselves those few and simple honest questions that we have managed to evade. Help us to slow down and be caught up into the slip-stream of your Spirit where we have ceased to labor; where we are simply enjoying you and bearing more fruit than we even knew possible. May you assemble your army form those who have chosen the better part and have armed themselves with the superior advantage of knowing you intimately. May we see your Kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven. Amen.
Thx, very good reading! I am finding myself in the Gulf also at times. Our Pastor was recently in a dry spell and ask me if i had anything to share for Wed. night bible study. So i said sure i have a new book that i am reading into (Blue Book). After two Wed. Bible studies out of this book, our Pastor is not in his dry spell anymore! And i have not been asked to share in awhile? At the end of the first Bible study he looked speechless but also excited at the same time? Or should i say frightened by the thought of everyone listening to God for themselves. I notice that most of our church members only relationship with God, is with the Sunday morning sermon from our Pastor. = )